I feel like a good question can just be, ‘Why am I allowing this circumstance to own me? Why am I allowing this person to dictate how I feel right now?’Libby Snow
- We are prone to angry responses, blaming, complaining, defensiveness, excuses, finger-pointing, and gossip.
- As human beings, we are far too comfortable lashing out and attacking others to make a point.
- Angry responses tend to create more pain than they alleviate.
- Similar to a blinking engine light, anger itself is not the problem itself but a symptom of something wrong under the hood.
- It is natural to feel angry when we recognize that the people we love are not becoming the best versions of themselves.
- We respond constructively to the anger in our hearts when we respond with honesty, humility, and hope.
- Every time you notice something is not quite right inside of you, take your emotional temperature by asking the question, “Why am I feeling this way?”
- Demonstrate a willingness to acknowledge your anger with the statement, “I’m feeling angry right now” rather than projecting the lie that “I’m fine.”
- Evaluate yourself honestly by considering, “In the places where I am feeling perpetually angry, what are constructive ways to respond?”
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