Episode #223 Start A Tradition

Three Problems

• It is the natural life cycle of traditions that they may eventually come to an end.

• Some of our old and worn-out traditions are no longer accomplishing their purpose.

• Random experiences are rarely as meaningful as intentionally crafted experiences.

Five Principles

• Traditions cultivate belonging, stability, and anticipation.

• Traditions help us to persevere through difficult seasons.

• Traditions are powerful opportunities to reset tense or distant relationships.

• Traditions can serve as a point of connection between multiple generations.

• Our most meaningful traditions are often related to generosity or gratitude.

Eight Practices

• Link each of your family’s core values to a related tradition.

• Establish traditions that do not require significant travel time or expenses.

• Engage in rhythms of grief and remembrance, as not all traditions need to be happy.

• Prepare snacks, meals, and drinks that are unique to each season or occasion.

• Identify a tradition of the past that could be revived to serve your family today.

• Explore how traditions can evolve to meet new needs or expand to include new people.

• Schedule an annual meeting to discuss which traditions to start, stop, or sustain.

• Celebrate holidays a few days early in order to reduce scheduling conflicts.