Episode #191 Practice Family Rhythms

Three Problems

• The dreams we have for our families will not be realized without intentionality.
• In order to prioritize rhythms, we must become comfortable with saying No.
• We often accept our current reality rather than making choices that lead to change.

Five Principles

• We are the accumulation of our choices and the sum of our most consistent rhythms.
• The earlier we initiate rhythms, the more easily and effectively they will be accepted.
• Our ability to sustain family values is related to our dedication to rhythms and routines.
• Once a rhythm is firmly established, it doesn't require nearly as much effort to maintain.
• It is never too late to make choices that deepen our relationships with others.

Five Practices

• Identify 3-5 core values in light of the question, “What kind of family do we want to be?”
• Establish at least one rhythm, routine, or rule devoted to each of your family values.
• Remain committed to your own family rhythms even when other families lack rhythms.
• Consider whether any of your personal rhythms could become family rhythms.
• Schedule an annual family meeting to re-evaluate family values and rhythms, and make adjustments accordingly.