Episode #233 Best Of: You're Gonna Die
It has been 1,785 days since this episode first aired, so we are all 1,785 days closer to death. This week, we revisit a conversation between Dr. Michael Brown and Logan Brown about how to live with a Marble Mindset.
Show Notes
Logan BrownWhen I was a kid, there was a three-month period where every single night, I was absolutely convinced I was gonna die. I remember creeping into your room and my heart is racing. I’d wake you up and say, "Mom, I think I’m gonna die."
Seven Problems
- Tomorrow is never guaranteed.
- With each passing hour, we are closer to the moment of our death.
- Every single human being is going to die, and most of us will die sooner than we expect.
- We tend to talk about death like it’s theoretical or hypothetical instead of inevitable.
- We often fail to make positive changes today because we don’t want to acknowledge the possibility that yesterday’s choices were unhealthy or unhelpful.
- In contrast to money that can be saved or invested, time can only ever be spent.
- There are so many parts of our lives today that we are going to miss tomorrow.
Seven Principles
- The brevity of life puts the beauty of life into perspective.
- The awareness of death can create either fear or fortitude.
- Every moment matters, every choice counts, and every day is a gift.
- Nothing promotes growth and maturity quite like proximity to death.
- We can never reclaim the last hour, but we can always reclaim the next hour.
- It is never too late to begin making the choices that will help us become more fully alive.
- Our most important priorities on any given day should be human connection.
Six Practices
- Consider the possibility that you may not make it to your next birthday.
- Live each day not as if it were your last but with the knowledge that it could be.
- Create a funeral journal of statements you want to be true of you on your dying day.
- Calculate the days remaining in your life if you were to die on your 75th birthday.
- Find a physical reminder of your mortality, and carry it with you every single day.
- Initiate conversations about death with each of the most important people in your life.
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BJ