Episode #133 Compassion Changes Everything
How do we respond to the fear and frustration at the intersection of the personal and political? Prompted by the Supreme Court’s draft decision to overturn Roe v. Wade, Dr. Michael Brown and Amy Seiffert share how a commitment to compassion in the face of complexity can deepen our connection to others.
The first way God introduces himself is the word "compassion." He says in Exodus, talking to Moses, "I am compassionate and gracious, slow to anger, abounding in love and kindness."Amy Seiffert
- When it comes to navigating polarizing issues, we often settle for snippets over stories and callousness over compassion.
- When conviction is communicated without compassion, it always resembles condemnation.
- A lack of compassion in the face of complexity often indicates a lack of closeness to hurting people.
- Compassion prioritizes curiosity over criticism and proximity over distance.
- Compassion is the sum of empathy and action, so it always requires not just a feeling but also a choice.
- The compassion (or lack of compassion) that we show ourselves inevitably spills out into the world around us.
The Progression of Compassion
- Pity says, “I acknowledge your suffering.”
- Sympathy says, “I care about your suffering.”
- Empathy says, “I feel your suffering.”
- Compassion says, “I want to relieve your suffering.”
- Whenever entering into potentially polarizing conversations, consider the question, “How can I approach this with compassion?”
- Reflect on those areas where your tendency is to criticize and condemn by asking yourself, “Why do I resist compassion in these situations?”
- Deepen your relationships with others and increase your understanding of the personal impact of political issues by making a commitment to leading with listening.
In This Episode
Find Common Ground
There is polarization everywhere we look, and it’s hard to see a way out and a way forward. This week, Dr. Michael Brown and Amy Seiffert wrestle with the practice that could heal our relationships and save our world.
Is Unity Possible?
The notion of unity can be both powerful and unsettling: powerful because it tugs at the heartstrings of what we most desire, yet unsettling because we fear for what we might lose in the process. This week, Dr. Michael Brown and Steve Rieske bring their 3-part conversation about our Country in Crisis to a very practical and hopeful conclusion.
Listen To Understand
In order to be fully loved, we must be fully known. But in order to be fully known, we must first be understood. This week, Dr. Michael Brown and Dan Costello discuss the key to knowing and loving others well.