I had this lightbulb moment where I realized I don’t do the things for my friends that I want my friends to do for me.Sammy Adebiyi
- On the rare occasions that we think about others, we typically only think about them in relation to ourselves.
- We are remarkably in tune with our own desires and equally out of tune with others’ desires.
- If we pursue relationships with the goal of getting something out of them, we will often be disappointed.
- We have so many more great ideas about how to be good friends than we realize.
- If we redirect even a fraction of our selfish creativity to benefit others, we will become exceptionally thoughtful friends.
- Expressing words of appreciation and affection to others actually brings as much joy to ourselves as it brings to those we encourage.
- When it comes to friendships, joy is often found on the other side of awkwardness.
- It is better to give than receive, and our lives become fuller when they are emptied for others.
- Enter each environment with the goal of being more interested in others than interesting to others.
- Refuse to think a single positive thought about someone without sharing it verbally within 24 hours.
- Make a list of every way your friends have left you with unmet expectations, then take action to meet those same expectations for others.
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