Episode #110 Worrying Solves Nothing

The scenarios that our minds play on repeat are not nearly as helpful as we may think. This week, Amy Seiffert and Barb Roose empathize with our anxieties and offer the encouragement that peace is possible.

Show Notes

There was this Worry-Flix subscription that was like, "We’ve got 32 seasons of 28 episodes awaiting you of what life of being unwanted, unmarried, and alone is going to look like. Do you want to start with episode 1?"
Barb Roose

Four Problems

  • We waste so much of our lives worrying about so many things.
  • We often believe the lie that thinking is the same as doing. 
  • Worrying gives us the illusion of control while simultaneously robbing us of control.
  • Our worries often lead us to the very places we fear.

Five Principles

  • In order to stop the cycle of worry, we must intentionally press the pause button.
  • We always have the power the think about what we are thinking about.
  • Managing our emotions may require effort, but it is effort that is worthwhile.
  • Spiritual practices may not make life easier, but they do make life more peaceful.
  • Worry is often expressed in our bodies before it becomes conscious in our brains.

Four Practices

  • Consider speaking with a doctor or therapist about options to treat anxiety.
  • Look to your body for signals of worry that you otherwise may not have perceived.
  • Create a calming bedtime routine that prevents and alleviates racing thoughts.
  • Read or recite a list of five centering realities at the beginning and end of each day.