Episode #128 Train Your Emotions
Two of the greatest barriers to our success and well-being are depression and lack of motivation. This week, Dr. Michael Brown and family physician Dr. Justin Brown introduce a mental health treatment through a life coaching lens.
I have found myself these past few weeks struggling with this mood that is of a lower quality than I would want. I feel sad today, and I don’t know why. And I’m trying to do my normal things, but I don’t have the energy.Dr. Justin Brown
- Depression is a medical condition characterized by feeling down and struggling to enjoy the things we would normally enjoy.
- Depressive episodes occur in 10% of Americans each year and 20% of Americans throughout the course of their lives.
- Our tendency when we feel depressed is to avoid the activities we would typically enjoy, which makes us feel even more depressed.
- Depression may cause a profound lack of motivation accompanied by feelings of guilt, worthlessness, and hopelessness.
- If we only make healthy choices when we feel motivated, we will rarely make healthy choices.
- Sometimes our emotions lag behind our actions, and the joy from pleasurable activities is often delayed.
- It is hard to do hard things when life is hard.
- We cannot change how we feel at this very moment, but we can make choices that will change our emotional state in the near future.
- We cannot choose our emotions, but we can always choose our attitude.
- We cannot choose our feelings, but we can choose our response to those feelings.
- Behavioral activation is the practice of doing enjoyable activities even if they are not enjoyable in the moment in order to train ourselves to experience joy again.
- Doing enjoyable activities when we feel sad is not a way of ignoring and minimizing our emotions but a way of identifying and addressing them.
- We don’t need to wait until we feel normal to do the things we would normally do, and we don’t need to wait to feel motivated to pursue our goals.
- The satisfaction we experience from accomplishing something difficult actually increases our motivation to continue doing difficult things.
- The accumulation of healthy choices makes us healthier, even if it doesn’t feel that way in the moment.
- Train your mind to become motivated by a lack of motivation.
- Consider which daily rhythms and routines are essential to your well-being, and commit to doing them every day – even when you don’t feel like it.
- Identify which activities improve your mood, and create an ‘activity menu’ to pick and choose from when you are feeling down.
- Speak honestly with friends and family about your mood and motivation.
- Schedule an appointment with a medical provider or mental health professional when you feel stuck and stagnant due to a depressed mood or lack of motivation.
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Dream Decide Do
Whether it’s breaking an old habit or starting a new business, positive change requires perspective, purpose, and proactivity. This week, Dr. Michael Brown chats with his son, Justin Brown, about the three keys to accomplishing your goals.