Sometimes people try to exit that relationship over the course of a month by slowly decreasing conversation and then seeming kind of distant. And before you know it, it’s been this long, drawn-out process. A ton of emotions have been stirred up instead of just saying, ‘This isn’t what I need anymore. The time has been appreciated, and I’ve grown through this process, but this relationship is no longer what I desire.’Dr. Russell Catania
- Human beings have this strange habit of complicating the uncomplicated.
- Believing the lie that a simple situation is complex is a frequent excuse not to make an obvious and important choice.
- It is easier to recognize the solutions to others’ problems than the solutions to our own problems.
- We often make difficult situations worse by stressing out about them.
- Our physical environments are often so cluttered that it becomes difficult to focus on whatever is most important.
- We are only a small series of choices away from meeting our most important goals.
- Simple solutions often involve fewer steps, requiring us to act now rather than later.
- No circumstance in our lives is so insurmountable that it cannot be broken down into smaller, more manageable components.
- Managing time is often as simple as reducing the hours spent on one activity in order to increase the hours available for other activities.
- Saving money is often as simple as spending less than we earn.
- Improving health is often as simple as more sleep and fewer calories, more exercise and fewer hours of TV, more doctor’s appointments and fewer cigarettes.
- Evaluate the efficiency of your rhythms by considering, “Is there anything I do monthly that I should start doing weekly or anything I do weekly that I should start doing monthly?”
- When your thoughts and emotions feel chaotic, write them down until they become easier to process.
- Spend a few minutes every Sunday designing the week ahead.
- Ask yourself, “In each dimension of life, what is one rhythm I need to add and one habit I need to subtract?”
- Initiate this conversation with a friend who knows you well: “Are there any problems in my life that I am making more difficult than they need to be?”
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